We relate in terms of ideas, concepts, beliefs, theories, theologies, doctrines, and dogma—we call this kind of engagement Systemic, and the primary expression is found in our minds, our thinking, and our emotional feelings and convictions.

We relate in terms of specific manifestations of faith and practice—different denominational practices, traditions, and actions of service—we call this kind of engagement Extrinsic, and the primary expression is found in actual, real-life actions and activities

We relate in terms of highly personal, spiritual experiences which are unique to our own lives, never capable of being put totally into words or explained and defined “rationally,” but that may be of extremely high meaning and value to us in ways that become touchstones of our existence.